First and foremost this group is for supportive partners. We are here to help people who want to make their relationships work through the transition. We accept that transitioning (in whatever way is right for the trans individual) is the best thing for the person. Any kind of transphobia will not be tolerated. If you see it, report it.
Please be civil, not everyone will share your viewpoint and we are all on different journeys. We are here to offer support in both the tough times and the good. If you find the topics in the group darker than usual, speak up and share an uplifting or good story. The group is what you make it.
Discussions can get intense sometimes, but if for any reason a post or comment makes you feel uncomfortable or threaten, report it to the moderators to take action.
It’s important to remember that we are likely to meet up in real life and anything said in the group stays in the group. Non-disclosure is paramount. It is also important to note that anything that is discussed in the group shouldn't be discussed with our partners (unless of course it is specifically something you are dealing with, but be careful not to share anything that could be used to identify anyone else). This also means that showing your partner posts or comments from the group are not allowed under any circumstances.
This is also an adult’s only group, so feel free to discuss some of the more intimate sides, but please make sure this is not in a crude way that may offend another group member.
Please don’t request people to contact you privately, it prevents others who may be in similar situations from sharing the support. While we cannot stop it from happening entirely, please remember that we cannot moderate anything outside of the group. If you are found to be poaching members, you will be removed from the group, and by the same token please let us know if you are poached.
No fundraising, the people within the group are all in similar situations and makes us all feel uncomfortable.
Should, for any reason, you need to be contacted by a moderator we will send you a private message and will include the other members of the moderation team in the chat. This is to protect both the member and the moderators. We may delete posts/comments before contacting you, but where possible we will provide a reason as soon as possible after the deletion.